Now that we got your attention…
You want to know what the Pepper’s are up to lately, don’t you?
It’s okay…we want to know what you are doing too.
What in the world brings countless Americans together on a M/T/W/Th/F/Sat/Sun night in front of the tube to voyeristically look at other people having fun on Reality TV?
What drives us to want to watch how other people live their daily lives….their boring, mundane, ritualistic, typical American lives?
Is it that we really want to spy on others?
Maybe.
There have been times I would of loved to have been a fly on THAT wall….
But, I think it’s more.
More than just a cursery interest…more than just spying….
I think it’s validation.
You want to know that there are others out in the world just.like.you.
You want to know that you are not alone.
That your habits, idiosyncrasies , ticks, or annoyances are things that another human being somewhere, shares with you.
So, we peer into their lives via Fox, ABC, NBC, HBO, blogs, twitter, instagram, facebook…just to get a glimpse of the familiar.
So, let us usher you into the Spice World of Chip and Cherry Pepper, and see if you can relate.
Maybe you read Married Spice to get great tips on ‘Christian Sex”, maybe you just want to see how others do it (no pun).
Whatever your reason, it’s yours, and you are welcome here.
Just so you know, we aren’t perfect. (I think I have a stretch mark somewhere).
We aren’t famous. (quick, unfollow us, NOW)
We aren’t therapists (no quacks here)
What we are ,is someone just.like.you.
We just package it real nice with peppers and hearts, and spicy talking.
All that’s missing is a big red bow on top!
After all the years we’ve been together, we’ve certainly accumulated quite a laundry list of stories and do’s and don’ts.
The reason why we are still married is because we picked ”the right one” and we were dogged determined from the start to make it wonderful, to make it work, to stay put.
This only works for those that are commited to an ideal greater than themselves..and those that happen to be great serial givers.
I don’t say “because we love God”, or “because we are Christians”, because quite frankly, that just doesn’t cut the mustard with us anymore.
Do you know how many ‘Christians’ we know “love God” and are now divorced? Too many to count.
Do you know how many non-professed Christians we know who are still married 20+years? Too many to count.
The point is, it’s not about your belief in God that keeps you married.
It’s your commitment to your spouse you made before God and others, and a fierce determination to be totally selfless that keeps you married.
We honor Him in our commitment, and try our best to please Him, so that helps for sure!
{Transparent Cherry moment= I don’t know if I could stay married to a man who abused me verbally or physically.
I don’t know if I could stay with a man who sat day in and day out on his rear playing video games, or went out all the time, while me and his kids cried out for attention.
I don’t know if I could stay married to a man who was selfish and ugly towards others.
I don’t know if I could stay married to a man who wouldn’t have sex with me anymore because he found me unattractive, or because he was addicted to porn & refused to seek help.
What if at 18 my ignorance was loud and my youth was strong, and I married the first guy who pursued me, and then knocked me up?
What if he cheats, apologizes, and cheats again, and again, and again?
I don’t know if I could stay.
So, please know, although we love God with all our hearts, we also chose correctly, and are strangely fiercely devoted to one another. We aren’t going to pretend to have all the answers, or tell you what to do. But, if you are in a situation like these, our prayers go out to you. But, we aren’t going to tell you to “get a divorce” or say that “God says to stick it out” either.}
What we offer is a way to keep one part of your married life on the fun path. To add some variety, some spark, some alternative to what your mama didn’t teach you.
As you know, we’ve been married for 18 years, and have 3 pepperonchini’s .
Chip is a very fun, yet overworked, and underpaid professional man. He does medical missions quite frequently in third world countries, and he’s the hottest man on the planet. I on the other hand have a million missions/passions/creative ventures I’m up to my ears with, have a part time job in the software field, as well as being a mom, taxi driver and Chip’s sex slave.
So, call us busy.
We are just.like.you.
We also have a mortgage, 2 cars and a naughty Lab.
We try to make life fun. It’s hard sometimes, but, if you can’t have fun, well, you will certainly not like living!
Chip teaches bible study at church, (we have done so for 20+ years) and we still don’t know a thing!
Why Married Spice?
We saw a need. We were tired of so many marriages struggling in this area. There is no one thing to blame here; Church, upbringing, bad teachers…Countless people especially in the Christian denomination were coming to us for sex advice. Asking us what we do to keep it hot and to keep the fire burning after so many years.
Why they picked us I have no idea! Must be the way Chip talks about me, or grabs my butt in public. (jk) Maybe it’s all those “Barbie and Ken” refrences we get, so they assume we mate well. We don’t know exactly.
Either way, we had quite a few experiences with counseling others, and wanted to do something on a grand scale that didn’t involve quitting our jobs or doing an infomercial.
Married Spice is our way of helping you enjoy your married sex life with gusto, with laughter, and above all with LOVE.
So, there you have it. You’ve peaked into our lives a bit. What else you wanna know?
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