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Spice Rack Essential- Coconut Oil

Okay, spicy friends, no LOVE CAVE can have a bare Spice Rack. 

We have tweeted, told our friends and bragged about this for a while now, so I guess we should blog about it too and more specifically.


Coconut Oil has changed our sex life. It seriously works like a dream.

Okay, we said it. Now, if that’s hard for you to believe, you’ll just have to get some and see for yourself.

Gone are the days of $10 lubricants, $20 massage oils, and $30 kama sutra gizmos.
Gone are the sticky, slimy, can’t be used all over, stain the bed sheets lubricants!

Buh, bye.

Hello, all natural, yummy smelling, delicious tasting, all in one, sexy feeling, soft & silky, melts all over,
(but NEVER USE ON A CONDOM)  COCONUT OIL!

So, here’s the rub:
(wow, the puns are just slipping out)!!!

There a two kinds: There is the Extra Virgin Coconut oil, that you usually find at the health food stores or at Amazon. 
It’s white, has a light sweet smell of coconut, and it stays more solid in higher temps. It’s in an 15oz jar for about $10. It goes on solid, but melts like butter in your hand like butter. We use this also for cooking. (but, a separate jar.)

The other kind is labeled All Natural, or Pure Coconut Oil.  The one we found in the baking isle of Walmart was by Louanna.
It’s in a huge 31.5 oz plastic jar and only costs $5!!!
The color, is yellow, (not very coconutty) doesn’t have a smell at all really, and stays more liquefied here in Florida. So, if you like to do a lot of massages, this is easy to pour into a squirt bottle for easy use.

We think the difference lies in the two ways they process the oil.
The cheaper version is probably hydrogenated. (refined) So, we don’t use this one for eating.  But, for massages it works great.  It’s so cheap we don’t care to waste it.  The problem for Cherry is that it doesn’t smell like the beach, so when we have messy dirty sexy play, she’d rather have the extra virgin oil. 
Some of you may like the non-coconut smell better. This would be the one for you. Your choice.

Not only is this good for your skin, hair, your cholesterol level, but it makes you shimmer.  You shine in candlelight.
It’s extremely sexy to have a greased up body for your spouse..better yet, let them put it on you, or watch you put it on.
If you both have it on all over, your will slip and slide all over each other and that is very exciting and fun! Try it at least once, you won’t be disappointed.

If you use condoms, our advice is to keep a towel close by and wipe off your male parts before putting it on.  It can dissolve the latex.  Kind of defeating the purpose of protection. Then, use a silicone lubricant for her if needed.

Oral sex with coconut oil is extremely erotic. It’s 100% edible, non-toxic, and doesn’t feel sticky like lubricants.  Who wants to lick those?  Yuck.  Use if all over for massage, then continue your journey into the intimate parts. This eliminates using 2 different products in your foreplay.

God knows best.  Coconut oil has won our love hands down (and hands up)! Keeping a jar in your spice rack with enhance your lovemaking experience and add spice to yourLet us know how much you like it!